The_King Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 A woman received misogynistic comments after posting a video online to criticise a man for wanting to go to Lau Pa Sat for their first date. Stompers Dawn and Yuxian alerted Stomp to the video where the woman appeared with a towel around her hair, having just stepped out of the shower. Dawn said: "While it is reasonable that she would prefer not to go to Lau Pa Sat for a first date, it is not right to mock the guy online when she could have suggested alternative locations instead." In the video, which has since been removed, the woman said she was deciding what to wear when she received a text from her date. “The guy told me that we’re going to Lau Pa Sat. Seriously, why are men so terrible? I really don’t get it,” she said. “I don’t know, man. I’m done. I’m so done with this.” The text at the bottom of the video read: “IT’S THE FIRST DATE. For the context: Lau Pa Sat is a hawker centre/food court. It’s worse than fast food in my book. Dear Universe, stop sending me cheap and/or toxic men. Thanks.” The woman said: “Please try harder. The lack of effort is unbearable.” The video was shared on Reddit on Feb 2 with the question: "Is a first date at Lau Pa Sat socially acceptable?" One Redditor commented: "Nothing wrong with Lau Pa Sat. Wouldn't be my first choice, but I mean, if you want a more casual experience, it's fine. "It's just some women have all kinds of expectations and tastes. Some will be fine with Lau Pa Sat, some won't. Some women don't like nice restaurants as they feel it is too try-hard." He added: "As a man, you just can't please everyone. No matter what you do, some women are going to complain about you. I find that video really shows a total lack of class." Comments by other netizens elsewhere were less restrained. One commented in a forum: "More and more princesses in SG. See this type of face, still want to 'hiam' (grumble) this 'hiam' that. Ask universe stop sending cheapo men, then she be prepared to stay on the shelf." Another said: "Maybe it’s a smart guy who uses the good ol’ hawker centre trick to straight up eliminate the princesses and gold diggers, no need to waste time on filth." Others made fun of the woman's appearance: "This kind of face still can demand so much?" "Not chio enough to complain in my books." "She has the Lau Pat Sat face, not Odette." "Her looks more suited for Old Airport hawker centre in my honest opinion." "She's so ugly and probably flat-chested, so yeah she deserves the lack of effort." 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zendude Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 women spend hours and quite a lot of money on preparation and makeup, I can see where her frustration is coming from but instead of just communicating with the guy she decided to make herself public enemy lol. she's def been crying for a while from the online bullying. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sTiCkY Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 can send her to yeendia? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canot_lidat_lah Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 (edited) First date need to impress, but also not invest too much in case it doesn't work out. Easy for women to complain since the financial investment is largely not on them. Edited February 5 by canot_lidat_lah 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 (edited) If she don't wan lps just counter offer the guy... Doing a beedio to complain show her lack of class n interest... Would she do tis if it's amdk? Edited February 5 by XianGe 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODACHEK Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 37 minutes ago, XianGe said: If she don't wan lps just counter offer the guy... Doing a beedio to complain show her lack of class n interest... Would she do tis if it's amdk? She definitely wet if it's Beckham... 1 TVB for life... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 I like this comment lol "She has the Lau Pat Sat face, not Odette." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted February 6 Author Share Posted February 6 I think this is their first and last date after she posted this online Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noobmaster Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 Guy dodged a bullet with this irritating bitch 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigpigoink Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 1 hour ago, noobmaster said: Guy dodged a bullet with this irritating bitch this ish the summary and takeaway 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noobmaster Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 (edited) 8 hours ago, canot_lidat_lah said: First date need to impress, but also not invest too much in case it doesn't work out. Easy for women to complain since the financial investment is largely not on them. But switch the topic to women in tech women in c suite jobs suddenly they are men’s equal Then switch back to topics like this or divorce and ns, they suddenly morph into weak and useless creatures that need a man. And man have to bring them to nice place and pay for dates as though they can’t afford it themselves @CannotTahanLiao Edited February 6 by noobmaster 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CannotTahanLiao Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 (edited) 47 minutes ago, noobmaster said: But switch the topic to women in tech women in c suite jobs suddenly they are men’s equal Then switch back to topics like this or divorce and ns, they suddenly morph into weak and useless creatures that need a man. And man have to bring them to nice place and pay for dates as though they can’t afford it themselves @CannotTahanLiao Good that she reveal her true self after the date. Hope she remain single forever and ever. If I'm her male colick, I will say things like this to trigger her: "Women should remain in the kitchen and cook when the men ask. If she talks back, just one tight smack across her stupiak face and say "when I ask chiu to cook, chiu better cook for moi!!! I donch care chiu tech manyzer or simi sai!!!" Hope her father or brother is misogynistic towards her Edited February 6 by CannotTahanLiao 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noobmaster Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 5 minutes ago, CannotTahanLiao said: Good that she reveal her true self after the date. Hope she remain single forever and ever. If I'm her male colick, I will say things like this to trigger her: "Women should remain in the kitchen and cook when the men ask. If she talks back, just one tight smack across her stupiak face and say "when I ask chiu to cook, chiu better cook for moi!!! I donch care chiu tech manyzer or simi sai!!!" Hope her father or brother is misogynistic towards her I will tell her shut up go to kitchen and make me a sandwich 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CannotTahanLiao Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 Hope wherever she goes outside, she will see couples that will make her jealous. Hope whenever she takes mrt or bus, there will be at least 3 couples around her making her jealous 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted February 6 Author Share Posted February 6 First date need to go hawker to test 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 5 minutes ago, The_King said: First date need to go hawker to test Maybe the guy smart.. use this to test her... Cos if he really wanna save $$$ he would've jio her go neighborhood hawker in bedok/tpy/amk/etc where it's more smoky/oily 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canot_lidat_lah Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 58 minutes ago, XianGe said: Maybe the guy smart.. use this to test her... Cos if he really wanna save $$$ he would've jio her go neighborhood hawker in bedok/tpy/amk/etc where it's more smoky/oily Actually first date don't even have to have a meal . Lim starbucks and chat also kym. if click well then can have date at a nicer place next time. of course some women will feel underappreciated and accuse the guy cheapo etc; too bad lor, both dodge a bullet. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noobmaster Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 2 hours ago, XianGe said: Maybe the guy smart.. use this to test her... Cos if he really wanna save $$$ he would've jio her go neighborhood hawker in bedok/tpy/amk/etc where it's more smoky/oily Could be guy working near the area and ask her to meet there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now