The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 SINGAPORE: A married man with three children repeatedly raped the family's new maid when his wife was out with their kids. He claimed that he felt "frustrated" because his wife was "no longer satisfying his sexual urges". Unable to bear the abuse, the maid ran away after about a month. In the fallout, she lost two subsequent jobs because she was traumatised and could not function properly, and her family and boyfriend blamed her for what happened. The 34-year-old rapist was sentenced to 24 years' jail and 24 strokes of the cane on Wednesday (Nov 16). He pleaded guilty to three charges of rape and sexual assault, with another nine charges taken into consideration. He cannot be named due to a gag order imposed by the court to protect the victim. The court heard that the man lived in a flat with his wife and their three children. The victim, a 26-year-old Indonesian maid, came to Singapore to work for the man's wife in January 2020. The victim was provided with her own bedroom, where she slept alone at night. This room was also used as the children's play room. The offender and his wife were the victim's first employers in Singapore, and she initially felt close to them and secure with them. However, the man began to feel "frustrated" because his wife was "no longer satisfying his sexual urges", the prosecution said. He began preying sexually on the maid, who was 24 at the time. He waited for his wife to leave the flat before doing so on four occasions between September 2020 and October 2020. In September 2020, the victim was alone in the flat with the offender. His wife had left the house with two of her children to pick up the oldest child from school. The victim was washing dishes in the kitchen when the man hugged her from the rear and kissed both sides of her neck. The maid immediately told him to stop. She pushed him away and ran into her bedroom but the man followed. He continued trying to hug and the maid, who sat on the floor to avoid his advances and covered her face. She said "No, please don't", but the man sexually assaulted her and raped her. The victim cried and shouted throughout because she felt severe pain, the prosecution said. The man knew that she did not consent, because she covered her face and appeared helpless, but persisted. He raped her again on another occasion that month when his wife had left with all three children to go to a playground. He did so on the mat his children played on in the maid's room. The victim endured the abuse as she was extremely afraid and did not know what recourse she had, the court heard. MAID RUNS AWAY After the fourth occasion on Oct 15, 2020, the maid could no longer bear it. After the offender left the flat, she ran away and called her agent, crying. The agent picked her up near the flat and assured her that lodging a police report against the offender would not prevent her from working in Singapore. Only then did they head to a police post to lodge a report that same day. The maid was later prescribed emergency contraception to prevent pregnancy. She did not get pregnant and did not contract any sexually transmitted diseases. However, she continued to be affected by the rapes. She was unable to trust her new male employers, had flashbacks while performing chores and was unable to sleep. She also developed anxiety if she was near a man. As a result, two different employers fired her in succession. She was able to find a job as a housekeeper only in May this year. When she confided in her then-boyfriend and family, they blamed her for what happened. This led to her ending her relationship with him. MAN ABUSED HIS POSITION: PROSECUTION Deputy Public Prosecutors Kevin Yong and Angela Ang asked for 23 to 28 years' jail and 24 strokes of the cane. Mr Yong cited the victim's vulnerability as a maid, the offender's abuse of position and trust, and the premeditated nature of his offending. He said that the man would wait until his wife and children were not around before committing his offences. Mr Yong also pointed to the harm caused to the victim as well as the persistent nature of offending. The offences stopped only when the maid fled the house and made a police report, he said. However, he recognised the man's plea of guilt and the compensation of S$2,000 he had made to the victim. Defence lawyers Ashwin Ganapathy and Victoria Tay asked instead for 22 to 23 years' jail, with no submission on caning. The man asked to read out a letter he had written himself to the judge, and was allowed to do so. MAN ADDRESSES JUDGE, BREAKS DOWN He said: "Your honour, I became consumed by my sexual desire. I was not able to see the consequences of my actions." He said that being in remand has helped to "take away my sexual desire" and he is now "able to control my sexual temptation". He said he has regained his sanity and balance and was "able to put things (in) their proper place in my mind and heart and life". "It has been a turning point," he continued, starting to cry. "Your honour, I have been a poor husband and a poor employer. But please give me a chance to be the best father to my little children. They are still young." He spoke emotionally, saying that he was "deprived" of his father's love while growing up, as his parents divorced when he was 12. Justice Dedar Singh Gill interjected at this point and told the man to compose himself before continuing. He did so, and said he was carrying his two-year-old daughter and taking care of his boys aged seven and four on Oct 16, 2020 when Criminal Investigation Department officers went to his home to conduct investigations. "My wife, now ex-wife, had to leave work to be home and be interviewed," he said, adding that she had to arrange for alternative childcare so she could be interviewed. "Please pity them," he said. He said he considered himself part of the sandwich generation, as he had responsibilities towards his children and mother. Before that, he played an important role to his siblings after his parents' divorce. "Please let me resume my responsibility," he said. "I deeply regret whatever had happened. I am truly sorry to the victim, to the complainant and to my family. I truly repent and have made a promise to myself not to repeat the act and abstain from adultery." Source: CNA/ll(rj) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 Fucker 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huat Zai Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 Hope Changi inmates show him what is karma Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 He should've tested her interest first... If she not interested then just stay away n sarpot the FLs... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huat Zai Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 4 minutes ago, XianGe said: He should've tested her interest first... If she not interested then just stay away n sarpot the FLs... 不吃窝边草, even if she's interested he shouldn't go for it, just pay a professional to do the job. Less complications. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 (edited) Can find FL. Now 34 by the time release 50s already, whole life gone Sex 4 times exchange for 24yr? Worth it meh? Edited November 16, 2022 by The_King 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 (edited) Me also find FL, kena caught by police also and they only wanted your statement or report Cause it is not illegal to visit prostitution in SG The only thing I suffer is wallet a hole. I dont know what is he thinking Edited November 16, 2022 by The_King 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 20 minutes ago, XianGe said: He should've tested her interest first... If she not interested then just stay away n sarpot the FLs... 2020 no good FL due to Covid 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 6 minutes ago, The_King said: Me also find FL, kena caught by police also and they only wanted your statement or report Cause it is not illegal to visit prostitution in SG The only thing I suffer is wallet a hole. I dont know what is he thinking No geylang in 2020 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 (edited) 7 minutes ago, ManOfTheHour said: No geylang in 2020 FL also, cause it legal for me. Got money everything also can, can video, bareback,SM, etc..... The only thing about FL if too young better check their passport not under 18 Edited November 16, 2022 by The_King 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 6 minutes ago, ManOfTheHour said: 2020 no good FL due to Covid Good point...forgot sinkieland closed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 23 minutes ago, Huat Zai said: 不吃窝边草, even if she's interested he shouldn't go for it, just pay a professional to do the job. Less complications. F&F... The motto of bike forum... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 1 minute ago, XianGe said: Good point...forgot sinkieland closed Got FL la, you all nv find only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 23 minutes ago, The_King said: Can find FL. Now 34 by the time release 50s already, whole life gone Sex 4 times exchange for 24yr? Worth it meh? Not jz 24yrs... Lost wife to piakpiak + nid pay alimony + lost chewren... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaur4man Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 6 minutes ago, XianGe said: Not jz 24yrs... Lost wife to piakpiak + nid pay alimony + lost chewren... plus backsai permanent open flower 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 13 minutes ago, The_King said: Got FL la, you all nv find only. Yah but damn jialat one n overpriced. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 27 minutes ago, ManOfTheHour said: Yah but damn jialat one n overpriced. Just like price of chicken high, eat fish.... Lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 1 hour ago, XianGe said: Not jz 24yrs... Lost wife to piakpiak + nid pay alimony + lost chewren... if i am him, i all these forget it, and ran oversea to start my life again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted November 16, 2022 Author Share Posted November 16, 2022 49 minutes ago, ManOfTheHour said: Yah but damn jialat one n overpriced. this one free 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huat Zai Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 30 minutes ago, The_King said: if i am him, i all these forget it, and ran oversea to start my life again. Other country also not stupid, very few will accept a sex offender 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XianGe Posted November 16, 2022 Share Posted November 16, 2022 2 hours ago, The_King said: if i am him, i all these forget it, and ran oversea to start my life again. Need find truelyasia trucks who will ship him out 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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