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A viral video of a devastated 28-year-old woman in China describing the pain of never having a boyfriend has started a debate on mainland social media about the pressures young people face in modern-day China.
The unnamed Shanghai woman was in tears in the video posted on February 12 as she spoke to her sister-in-law about the heavy pressures she feels from her job, money, her parents’ expectations and being permanently single.
She said the many challenges she faced and the stress they caused had started turning her hair grey, Star Video reported.
“I have never held a man’s hand,” she said in the video.

She explained that she is already 28 years old and has tried many things, even turning to blind dates to find her first boyfriend, but she hasn’t found love yet.
The woman also said that she was made to feel even more anxious because she felt she had to go on blind dates to satisfy her parents’ expectations.

“I can’t disappoint my parents, so I brave it out for the blind dates,” she continued.
However, it strained her limited finances as she would spend a few hundred yuan (tens of US dollars) on dining out for each date. She said she was reluctant to spend her limited money on blind dates because she had to live within her means.

“I even begrudge spending on buying shoes for myself,” she said.

 

 

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On 2/17/2023 at 4:45 PM, ManOfTheHour said:

Sadly even @HarrisY1 will reject cos

 

 

 

On 2/17/2023 at 5:33 PM, Huat Zai said:

This might be more apparent

 

 

 

u all dont worry abt her.

 

she comes pappyland, confirm will have plenty of kgks fighting for her.

 

pappyland kgks love to jiak pork chops, u all dont know meh???????

 

On 2/11/2023 at 11:49 AM, Huat Zai said:

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Female ICA Officer In Recruitment Video Stuns TikTok Viewers With Her Beauty

If past records are anything to go by, attractive officers in uniform have proven to be a hit among Singaporeans.

While the Singapore Police Force’s (SPF) video last November made Singaporeans’ hearts go ‘bedok bedok’, the spotlight seems to be on the Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA) now.

In a recruitment video posted on Thursday (9 Feb), the ICA featured a female officer from the manpower division.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

While there were many available positions at ICA, some netizens seemed especially interested in applying to be the officer’s assistant.

Female ICA officer features in TikTok recruitment video

On Thursday (9 Feb), the ICA posted a 40-second recruitment video on TikTok and Instagram featuring a female officer.

 
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What do you do for a living? ICA #3 Come join us if you have the passion to serve the country and safeguard our communities! 🐈❤️ #ica #fyp #fypsg #sg #tiktok #guardiansofourborders #secureborderssafesg

♬ original sound – ICA_Singapore – ICA_Singapore

 

Dressed in ICA’s iconic uniform, the spritely officer introduced herself as being from the recruitment team in the manpower division.

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Source:@ica_singapore on TikTok

From her name tag, the officer’s surname appears to be “Lee”.

When asked why she joined ICA, Ms Lee candidly stated that she did so for job stability.

The video then cuts to her offering a tour of her office.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

A cat lover with six felines at home

As Ms Lee sat down in her cubicle, the person behind the camera asked if she enjoyed her work, to which she immediately replied, “Yes, of course.”

The crew then followed up by asking about the type of “personality” that ICA looks out for in its recruitment.

In response, Ms Lee said the organisation looks for individuals with the desire to serve the country and its people.

 
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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

Ending the 40-second video, the crew asked Ms Lee a question that often surfaces on dating apps — cats or dogs?

Without hesitation, she proudly answered “cats, of course” before sharing that she has six felines at home.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

The camera then pans towards the left, showing a mosaic of cat photos pinned to Ms Lee’s cubicle board.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

TikTok viewers offer to be her assistant

Though the video was posted with the intention of boosting ICA’s recruitment, some netizens’ focus seemed to be on Ms Lee instead.

Many of them pointed out how attractive she is, with one even offering a rose, presumably a nod to Valentine’s Day next week.

 
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Source: @ica_singapore on Instagram

This TikTok user even said that Ms Lee could possibly be the ICA’s next poster girl.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

There were also others who offered to be an “assistant” in the ICA recruitment team, presumably so they could work together with Ms Lee.

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Source: @ica_singapore on TikTok

Jokes aside, those considering a job with the ICA can look through the available positions on their website.

 

https://mustsharenews.com/ica-recruitment-video/

 

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13 minutes ago, socrates469bc said:

 

 

u all dont worry abt her.

 

she comes pappyland, confirm will have plenty of kgks fighting for her.

 

pappyland kgks love to jiak pork chops, u all dont know meh???????

 

 

Cannot la I scare of ppl who hang picture of cat on the wall. 

 

If you know series killer they always collect those stuff or some hang picture scary

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