Moderators invis Posted November 28, 2018 Moderators Share Posted November 28, 2018 https://t.me/Invisssss https://discord.gg/PvPTrye https://www.instagram.com/invisman_/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators invis Posted November 28, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted November 28, 2018 "It's not you, it's me"? Not for this girl in Singapore, who chided her boyfriend for his list of supposed faults. A friend of the guy had tweeted screenshots of the couple's conversation and expressed her distaste for the girlfriend. The girl had texted him a long essay on WhatsApp about how she was going to be "VERY harsh and honest" with him for the "last time", and asked that he "read slowly and very carefully." Here's a summary of what she is unhappy with: 1. He is too emotional According to the girl, it is usually females who are emotional but even she has never "cried over stupid things like this". She said it is a sign of weakness and not love. She also called her boyfriend "bloody sensitive", "worse than a girl" and told him to "man up" instead of "acting like a woman". 2. He's "not very intelligent" and blur The girl complained that her boyfriend had no common sense and often misunderstood her words. Hence, she has to use basic English when speaking to him -- which apparently makes her "feel dumb". She also feels disinterested when talking to her boyfriend because the things he says are "really stupid", such as asking her supposedly obvious questions about her bathing and sleeping habits. 3. His use of Singlish makes him sound 13 years old Irritated at having to "stoop down" to her boyfriend's level so that he will understand what she is saying, she asked that he "stop talking like a 13-year-old". "Your English really cmi [cannot make it]," she adds, reinforcing the importance of being proficient in the language like a teacher or parent. 4. He's too insecure Apparently, the guy is too dependent and "cannot live without" her. She feels that he does not have a life outside of their relationship, which to him is everything, but not to her. "If I don't have it, I won't die. Whereas for you, it seems like you are going to kill yourself if I ever leave," she said. This, to her, is "stupid thinking" and "very childish". 5. Four heart emojis are too many As someone who does not like 'cute or girly or romantic shit", the girl finds her boyfriend's display of affections via long love letters, heart emojis and 'muacks' too much. 6. He makes her IQ go down and gives her a headache The girl says her boyfriend is "behaving like a weak little boy who hasn't reached puberty yet". Her IQ also goes down and she has a headache every time she talks to him. 7. She likes US and English shows, he enjoys Asian programmes and anime Due to her westernised culture and upbringing, the girl does not like her boyfriend "spamming" and "texting" her all the time, or reporting everything to her. Ending off her message, the girl also wrote, "I know an ah lian or typical Chinese girl would suit you much better. And an English-speaking, mature, older guy would suit me much better also." She then said she was just trying to make him a better person, hence the hurtful words, so that he can be "successful and rich and happy next time" while she gets her "comfortable life". Well, although may of the faults she listed sound like qualities other people would admire in a partner, you know what they say about how one man's meat is another poison. \_(ツ)_/¯ https://t.me/Invisssss https://discord.gg/PvPTrye https://www.instagram.com/invisman_/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leizai Posted November 28, 2018 Share Posted November 28, 2018 well well well... \_(ツ)_/¯ @invis 哥, 帶我稱霸, 帶我飛 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sinkiearsenal Posted November 28, 2018 Share Posted November 28, 2018 Sibei jialat.. Confirm end up with amdk next time... i sense hidden pinkerton syndrome.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoldMoon Posted November 28, 2018 Share Posted November 28, 2018 So harsh... But why be with the guy in the first place if she find the guy not man enough??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODACHEK Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 (edited) First few paragraphs sounds rike Ho Ching scolding Lee Hsien Loong. Anyways, no such porbem if ish AMDK bf... Edited November 29, 2018 by ODACHEK TVB for life... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sketchish Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 actually the i presumme shld be ex-gf by now do talked some sense... I mean, everyone's needs and wants r different.. so rather than stay in a "toxic" relationship shld just go separate ways. Clearly these 2 ppl r on different wavelength. If i'm the guy, i have 2 options... Stay true to himself and find a girl that appreciates the small gesture of love or upgrade. I wouldn't say the girl is at fault, she is just being honest. Its like cooking . if no one review or give feedback on your food, how to improve on the recipe... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoldMoon Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 12 minutes ago, sketchish said: actually the i presumme shld be ex-gf by now do talked some sense... I mean, everyone's needs and wants r different.. so rather than stay in a "toxic" relationship shld just go separate ways. Clearly these 2 ppl r on different wavelength. If i'm the guy, i have 2 options... Stay true to himself and find a girl that appreciates the small gesture of love or upgrade. I wouldn't say the girl is at fault, she is just being honest. Its like cooking . if no one review or give feedback on your food, how to improve on the recipe... Believe no one is perfect but flawed. That includes the girl in question. Going into a rs means accepting all of the person without bias. After all a compromise is usually needed to make or break a rs 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sketchish Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 1 minute ago, GoldMoon said: Believe no one is perfect but flawed. That includes the girl in question. Going into a rs means accepting all of the person without bias. After all a compromise is usually needed to make or break a rs true that true that... But like what we learn in marketing is, u always promote the good stuff & "choose" not to tell the flaw... Which in turn leads to buyer dissonance... I mean, we do not have the full scale information of the relationship to judge, but just a text msg to decrypt. Yes, for relationship to work, compromise is a must... but everyone has a threshold... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoldMoon Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 2 minutes ago, sketchish said: true that true that... But like what we learn in marketing is, u always promote the good stuff & "choose" not to tell the flaw... Which in turn leads to buyer dissonance... I mean, we do not have the full scale information of the relationship to judge, but just a text msg to decrypt. Yes, for relationship to work, compromise is a must... but everyone has a threshold... Depends on the severity of the situation. The threshold applies then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psyres Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 (edited) It is dead obvious that she is bored with him and wants to end it. The long essay pointing out flaws is more excuses than anything else, since everything she mentioned can be managed with proper communication. Guys should avoid this one and just leave her to the ones who treat her as in the same manner as she treated this fellow. Edited November 29, 2018 by Psyres 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sketchish Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 But i feel either the guy or the "guy's fren" shld not show this txt for the world to judge... a bit petty which would in turn proof that the girl's point of him being a tad sensitive... Just end the ship and move on... find someone else that appreciate u rather than spreading hate... I guess that how terrorism works... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DynamiteZerg Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 (edited) It's not u, it's me... but the girl is saying... it's not me, it's you! :P Edited November 29, 2018 by DynamiteZerg 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoboCop Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 Then why be with him in the first place. Know the person before committing a relationship. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camper Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 Massive WOT. Herself for being dumb for not doing QC before accepting to be someone else gf 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beyond Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 i foresee this ger next time kanna pwn deep deep by some fake rich dude or some mcp..... 2 I think about you. But I don't say it anymore -Marguerite Duras, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffee_O Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 (edited) well based on this kind of gal in sinkie. i guess everyone knows why sinkie guys go for foreign bride. this kind of gal must be early 20s now. see if she will say the same as she get nearer to the BIG 3 LOL BTW i read through her WOT. her engrish is not that powderful to criticize others too. Edited November 29, 2018 by Coffee_O 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynical Ape Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 Good content = Topics that genuinely encourages and stimulates interaction/banter. Bad content = Clickbaits, brag posts and social media news feed that nobody gives a flying fuck about + waste of server storage space Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sofero Posted November 30, 2018 Share Posted November 30, 2018 Ogay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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