“We all got traumatised, isn’t it.”
🫳 Former S’pore president Halimah Yacob said she now thinks twice about patting children on the head.
She was reflecting on how society has become more fragmented & the need for intergenerational bonding in community spaces.
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Here are the full details of both the Roxy Square incident and Halimah Yacob's remarks:
🔴 The Roxy Square Incident — Aug 15, 2026
When: Saturday, Aug 15, 2026, ~4.40pm
Where: Coffee shop / food court at Roxy Square, 396 East Coast Road
Victim: Mr Yeo Song Khoon, 73 — second-generation owner of Bei-Ing Wanton Noodle, a stall at the coffee shop for over 40 years
Alleged perpetrator: A 40-year-old man, father of the young girl; identified by police and under investigation
What happened
- Mr Yeo had just finished work and was buying coffee. Walking past a table where a girl (about 2–3 years old) was seated with her mother, he found her adorable and gently patted her on the head — a gesture of friendliness and endearment.
- The mother immediately pushed his hand away. The girl's father, who had been at the drinks stall, returned and confronted Mr Yeo angrily.
- CCTV footage shows the father shoving Mr Yeo forcefully to the ground even as the elderly man tried to explain himself.
- Mr Yeo has difficulty walking and uses tables for support; he suffered back pain and aggravated existing leg/hip injuries from the fall.
- The father apologised shortly after the incident. Mr Yeo initially did not want to pursue the matter, but his family later lodged a police report and he went for a hospital check-up.
Status
- Police report lodged; investigations ongoing
- Father identified as a 40-year-old man
- The incident was captured on CCTV and went viral after being posted by the stall's family
🗣️ Halimah Yacob's Remarks — Aug 19, 2026
Where: Speech at the launch of two new active ageing centres in Tampines
Context: Speaking about intergenerational bonding and how society has become fragmented
What she said
"Nowadays, it's a problem, you can't pat their heads also."
"I used to do that all the time, but now I have to constantly restrain myself. I'm very scared."
"We all got traumatised, isn't it."
"Patting children on the head is a sign of endearment, especially among older people. Society has become so fragmented, unfortunately."
Her point
She drew a direct link to the Roxy Square incident, noting that a gesture many seniors see simply as affection — patting a child's head — has now become something people fear doing. She expressed concern that society's growing unease over such casual interactions erodes warmth and connection across generations.