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I (40F), how i was sexually harrased and abused by a VIP male client ( Mr.R) setup by my own female manager when i was 31. I was newly promoted to the department at that time and this Mr.R is well known for being a perverted man, i didn't know who he was at that time. Mr.R saw me one day in my dept and found out i was new there and approach me in my room when im working. He said directly that he want me to 'teman' him karaoke at night and ask me to make time for him and start touching my hand. i thought this man is crazy for being so bold asking and touching me like that. I pull off my hand and told off the client Mr.R and said he is managed by another banker and he should liase with his own banker, not me. In the heated argument, i walk out from my room where he is standing and walk to my ladyboss manager room informing her what this client had said to me. I, deep down at that moment, hope that my boss will come to my rescue and talk her way off so the client will stop harassing me (as they are buddies). While i was telling Mr.R off to my boss, Mr.R came and stood at my boss's door and my ladyboss suddenly raised her voice and said 'you are obligated to serve customers as per customer wish'. I stood silent at what she said. My ladyboss looked at Mr.R and said "Don't worry, i will be there tonight with her to accompany you" Mr.R smiled and walked away, gesturing with his hand to my boss the promise to be there tonight. My boss then starts saying harsh things to me and said that I lack knowledge on how to handle clients. She warned me to stayback at the office tonight and go to the karaoke with her at 8pm or else i am in deep trouble. Around 7.30pm, my boss started leaving the office and said she need to fetch her kids from tuition and send them back home, and she will be there at 8pm..and told me to make sure i am there at 8pm as well. At 8pm, i was in my car outside my office, sitting quietly when my boss called and asked why I was not there yet. I asked my boss if she had arrived? As the karaoke location from my office is 2 minutes drive. My boss shouted at me asking me to come fast. I hung up and drove to the location parking spot. I did not see my boss's car. I wonder if she drove out a different car when she got home at that time. I msg my boss to inform i had arrived and i didn't see her car. I called my boss's phone but she refused to pick up many times. Then i saw Mr.R came out from this karaoke club house and guide me in saying I'm late. I thought maybe there are other people in the room, and my boss is busy talking with them and didn't answer my call. When i walk up to the VIP room guide by Mr.R, there is no one in the room. It was empty with a bottle of whiskey and 2 glasses on the table. Both glasses were filled with whiskey and ice. i thought perhaps my boss had walked away to the washroom or something. Mr.R sat down and I asked "where is my boss?" Mr.R smiled and held me the glass with liquor and cheered me to drink up first. He kept asking me to drink up first while waiting for my boss, i did not think much at that time and drank it as i thought he would stop annoying me if i drank the glass. Within 30 seconds or so, i suddenly felt extremely drowsy and my head was heavy and realised i drank a spiked drink. I heard an inner voice saying i am in danger and need to leave right now. When i tried to stand up and grab my bag.. I fell back for a moment and tried to get back up to grab the door handle, it was locked. Mr.R was in the washroom (a toilet inside the room which i didn't realise) washing something, when he realised i tried to flee, he pushed me back on the lounge chair and started sexually kissing, groping my breast and unbuttoning my top. All i remember was my head is spinning badly, vision is blurry and i am about to black out if I don't fight back and run. Somehow, i managed to push him off, taking a few deep breaths so I could stay focused and head to the door knob and unlock it, He grabbed onto my hand but I shoved him off and ran out from that place, stumbling along the stairs down and to my car. Fumbling looking for my car key and went straight in, start my engine and lock my car. I saw Mr.R was running towards my car and i passed out in my car. The next morning, when i woke up, i took a moment to look at the ceiling and realised I was actually on a bed in my room. I really thought I was dead from driving unconscious and i always wondered how I got home. I remember asking my mum, "did i get home by myself?" "Who park my car? Did I park my car by myself?" My mum said "ya, you came back and parked your car by yourself, you unlocked the door, came in as usual but you did not greet us. You just stared at us blankly and walked directly to your room." ( ** ) I did not tell my parents about what had happened as I felt ashamed of myself. Being 31 and still unable to protect myself and why did i believe my boss words. The following week, Mr.R came to my dept and saw me, he just smiled and said he had rape me and he had 'tasted me'. He did not thought of apologising to me for drugging me, sexually violated me and attempt to rape me. I shouted back at him denying all his words and kept saying i was aware of what happened that night and i was not rape. I felt like crying, screaming and dying all at once inside. He then went to my boss's room, and i heard my boss ask Mr.R "if he was satisfied with what he wanted?" I stood silent and froze up staring at my boss with hatred hearing all this. My boss continues to harass me in many ways throughout the years so i will resign on my own but I withhold a lot and continue to work there for 3 more years before finally quitting my dream job. (Maybe bcos i want to leave the company with a good performance record) I was hitting high performance in my KPI when i left and it baffled many colleagues. no one knows what made me decide to leave or reason im quitting as i did not told anyone ( about Mr.R and my ladyboss incident. ) I suffer depression and mental physical pain silently from what happened but my blood test sign is alarming indicating i have extreme high inflammation in my body due to high stress anxiety level that may lead to cancer. Early this year 2024, the region state HR dept called me and asked if i am interested to join back in a non sales post they would like to offer me. During my HQ HR webinar interview, when the HQ HR asked me why i left and wanted to join back, I choked up and stayed silent and everything started flashing back.. I failed in the interview miserably at the end. Since then, whenever i think of this incident lately, my heartache and my body are in so much pain I can't even describe these feelings. I am sharing this post as to all women out there to always be careful no matter who you are with, do not let anyone push you around, learn to say NO, and understand that post trauma mental health is hard to heal. I always wonder if i failed to save myself, would the client snap nude pic of me like the "BURNING SUN CASE"? I'm just glad i did save myself midway from a bad situation. ( ** ) - P/S: It was a miracle for me, i truly believe my God/deity save me that night after i passed out in the car by being in a trance state and drove me back home safely and put me to bed, reason why is my carpark is an extremely tight spot which can't be parked perfectly always even by me at times. and i have history of being saved in miracle moments and be in trance while praying at times, it is a pass down bloodline generation abilities from my dad and everyone in my family /relatives have this abilities 🪷🙏🏻 I'm grateful, feeling blessed and thankful in a way. 🪷🙏🏻    

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