Sn00pyPeanut Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) 盡人事聽天命 Actually I am like what she has described and probably one of the worst trait a lady in this generation wants in a partner or even by your superior. They want immediate result, recognition, reward. Smth like he is not giving his best, putting effort , u deserve better blah blah. . who cares about the result as long you know you have put in effort in life, you have tried to improve. Don’t who cannot accept this concept don’t really end up being a good parent Edited May 2 by Sn00pyPeanut 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_King Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 In short all forever alone better 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaur4man Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 i agree half of this. its missing the first half where u strive to achieve your own goals, ur expectations, rise up to the competition as u deem fit while constantly competing with urself and seeking to punch above, then the next half u cant please everyone or meet all expectations knowing u have already fulfilled urs. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huat Zai Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 2 hours ago, aaur4man said: i agree half of this. its missing the first half where u strive to achieve your own goals, ur expectations, rise up to the competition as u deem fit while constantly competing with urself and seeking to punch above, then the next half u cant please everyone or meet all expectations knowing u have already fulfilled urs. 3 hours ago, Sn00pyPeanut said: 盡人事聽天命 Most people think this means happy-go-lucky, but if you read actual passage this comes from (鏡花緣 chapter 6), it means do your absolute best and maximum effort, but don't get hung up by the outcome. End day, regardless of result, you can answer to yourself. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaur4man Posted May 2 Share Posted May 2 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Huat Zai said: Most people think this means happy-go-lucky, but if you read actual passage this comes from (鏡花緣 chapter 6), it means do your absolute best and maximum effort, but don't get hung up by the outcome. End day, regardless of result, you can answer to yourself. yes and the context and mentality is not that of a defeatist but rather a hustler Edited May 2 by aaur4man 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sn00pyPeanut Posted May 3 Author Share Posted May 3 13 hours ago, Huat Zai said: Most people think this means happy-go-lucky, but if you read actual passage this comes from (鏡花緣 chapter 6), it means do your absolute best and maximum effort, but don't get hung up by the outcome. End day, regardless of result, you can answer to yourself. only those lie flat people agree with me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sn00pyPeanut Posted May 3 Author Share Posted May 3 13 hours ago, aaur4man said: yes and the context and mentality is not that of a defeatist but rather a hustler Those who think it is a defeatist mentality, they themselves are very insecure , 愛面子, don’t have an amazing lifestyle / interest outside of corporate world . -be yourself -find and do what you like during free time -do something you think will improve you as a person and maybe to the society . - live everyday by cherishing the time you have on things that matter to you(this is not YOLO) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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