Jump to content
  • Sign Up Now!

     

    • Join in discussions about all the latest innovations in mobile phones, gadgets, computer, hardware, software and latest games.

     

     

  • Upcoming Events

    No upcoming events found
  • Chatbox

    Load More
    You don't have permission to chat.
  • Posts

    • She can ask amdk to share horoscope also mah .. or take his date and time of birth and maybe location of birth, then ownself generate horrorscope
    • LRP post this kinda pic. I can’t stop rubbing argh @meng.huat
    • woman's lament about the lack of Singaporean men on a dating app appears to have struck a chord, with her 63-second clip going viral. TikToker @joannetjh0, 34, says in a video posted on Dec 21 that she's going through a "really tough" divorce and downloaded the Bumble dating app because her parents were worried she would grow old alone. "I've been swiping and swiping and swiping on the app," she said, adding that her main criteria is a compatible horoscope. "Why is it almost 90 per cent of them (Bumble users) are Ang Mohs or expats? What happened to the local guys?" "Where are all the local men?" she added. The post, captioned, "Anyone above 40s compatible with Aries?" has since garnered at least 128,100 views, 4,441 reactions and 658 comments. Her post was also shared on Reddit where it has received 254 upvotes and 188 comments. Netizens were both amused and horrified that a compatible star sign was her main criteria, even as multiple men appeared to be interested in her. In a follow-up video, joannetjh0 says she received "more than a hundred DMs with people's horoscope and ages". "Horoscopes should be the last thing you want to look at. Don't let the stars dictate how you want to live your life," advised a TikToker. "Just finish [sic] divorce, thinks horoscope is the most important criteria lol. She looks good but I can't fix her. Go ahead guys," said a Redditor. "Yup, more like Horrorscope," said another Redditor. One claimed that local men are too preoccupied with earning money, taking care of their elderly parents and being private-hire drivers. Another said in jest: "What happened to local guys? They marry 'foreign talent'." Yet another commented: "Local guys are marrying Vietnamese girls. They gave up on SG girls long [sic] time ago." A TikToker had perhaps the most pertinent question of all: "Was your exs [sic] horoscope compatible with you?"      
    • A foreign professional who moved to Singapore for work after graduating from France has shared why they decided to leave the country after just six months, saying the experience made them feel like they never truly belonged. In a candid Facebook post, the poster explained that while Singapore has many strengths, several personal trade-offs ultimately led to the decision to return overseas. Constant reminders of being a foreigner One of the main issues raised was the constant reminder of being a foreigner. From the moment they arrived, nationality and work pass status repeatedly came up, especially during house hunting. The poster said that even when landlords did not state it outright, factors such as nationality, residency status, and type of work pass often affected whether they would be shortlisted as a tenant.   They added that at work, conversations frequently touched on topics like permanent residency, citizenship, and long-term plans to stay in Singapore. Many benefits, particularly cheaper housing options, were available only to citizens. As a result, the poster said they never developed a sense of belonging and always felt like an outsider. Housing costs and living standards Housing costs were another major concern. With a monthly housing budget of around S$1,200, the poster said they could rent a decent studio apartment in Paris. In Singapore, however, the same amount typically meant renting a shared room, sometimes even with a shared bathroom. Studio apartments were limited, significantly more expensive, or located far from the city centre. While they acknowledged that food and public transport in Singapore are relatively affordable and that low taxes mean take-home pay can be higher than in France, the poster felt the downgrade in housing had a significant impact on overall quality of life. Climate and workplace culture The poster also struggled with Singapore’s hot and humid climate, which they described as mentally and physically draining. Spending most of the year indoors with air-conditioning felt unhealthy, and opening windows at night was often not an option due to traffic noise in densely built-up areas. They also touched on workplace culture, noting that their team was made up entirely of local colleagues, which made the environment feel very Asian. The poster said there was a tendency for colleagues to judge others’ behaviour or thinking, and described experiences they felt resembled workplace manipulation. However, they acknowledged that this varies across companies and teams, and that friends in other workplaces had very different experiences. In closing, the poster stressed that Singapore does have many positive aspects and that everyone prioritises different things in life. Ultimately, they said, every decision comes with trade-offs, and expressed hope that others would be able to find their own “dream country”. Netizens’ response Following the post, netizens were divided in their reactions. Some felt that if Singapore was not a good fit, leaving was a reasonable choice, with several saying that every country has its own pros and cons and that people should live where they feel most comfortable. Others pointed out that food in Singapore is cheaper than in France, and that housing costs are a known issue for both locals and foreigners. Some commenters took a more pragmatic view, saying that many foreigners come to Singapore primarily to work and earn, and that if the lifestyle feels too difficult or unrewarding, there is no obligation to stay. They added that adapting to local conditions is part of choosing to work overseas. However, a number of responses were far less sympathetic. Some dismissed the experience outright, telling the poster to leave and not return, while others accused them of complaining or expecting special treatment. A few suggested that foreigners should not expect the same benefits as locals, while others questioned why the post focused on Singapore’s downsides instead of what the country does well. You may read the English translation of her Facebook post in full text below:
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Mugentech.net uses cookies to ensure you get the best experience on our website. By using this site you agree to Privacy Policy