The_King Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 Hi guys, sorry for another relationship post but I felt that it would be good to have some local perspective. I'm a 33F. Ever since my last relationship ended 2.5 years ago, I took some time to heal and started actively dating 1.5 year back. I've been on so many first dates that I've lost count but mainly there were 3 guys whom I dated for slightly longer (not at the same time). The rest of the dates don't go beyond the first or second date, either due to me or the other party. A bit more info on the 3 guys - all are around my age or late 30s. First guy we dated for 4 months before he ended things due to him not feeling he was at a stage where he can commit, we are now friends. Second guy I checked in at the 2 months mark, he was the "work hard play hard" type and didn't want to commit. We dated casually for a few more months before a mutual fade. Third guy I checked in at the start that we were both seeking a serious relationship. We dated for 2 months and he just sent me a rejection text of "not feeling excited" about things right before our date for the weekend which he asked me on Sorry for the wordy post. My point is, I'm really starting to wonder if there's something wrong with me. My friends can't pinpoint anything. I'm a single mom and I understand that is a deal breaker for most so it's stated clearly on my profile. My child is 14 and relatively independent, so I do have more time to date as compared to the past. There's no drama (ex not in the picture) and I am clear that my partner isn't required to fill in any role. I have a decent job, stable finances, healthy social life and am driven in self-improvement. In terms of appearance, I'm petite, not overweight and probably around a 7 out of 10? I always have people tell me they can't believe I'm single but the reality is its been really tough and I'm at a complete loss here. Any advice? Edit: Thank you so much everyone for the replies, encouragement and advice! I truly appreciate it all! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huat Zai Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 2 minutes ago, The_King said: I've been on so many first dates that I've lost count 2 Official Mugentech Minecraft server: Please see thread in Gamers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaur4man Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 self rated 7/10? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManOfTheHour Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 Need picture of her pgd 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
classyNfabulous Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 fwaaaa she gave birth at 19 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
classyNfabulous Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 4 hours ago, aaur4man said: self rated 7/10? self rate perception has oways been varsely disputed mabbe dats y the dissappointment. cos she has the perception dat she’s is ky in most aspects, but y still tio hiam etc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meng.huat Posted February 5, 2023 Share Posted February 5, 2023 it'll be easier if she meet another divorcee with kid. u see her rejections, likely they chickened out when they weigh in the kid she bringing into the picture. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ODACHEK Posted February 6, 2023 Share Posted February 6, 2023 2 TVB for life... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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